The meditation group are learning about the chakras and we have been focusing on specific one each week.
A trauma in childhood can cause an imbalance, such as age inappropriate responsibilities, causing an imbalance in the 3rd chakra (solar plexus).
Sometimes the situation within a family requires that the child grow up too quickly and take on responsibilities that are beyond the maturity of their age. Parental substance abuse, poverty, illness, death or divorce may push a child into the role of surrogate spouse or parent.
This usually leaves the child with an overwhelming feeling of inadequacy. Such inadequacy not only attaches itself to every task attempted in the future, but also to one’s very concept of self.
As Alice Miller has said “One is free from depression when self-esteem is based on the authenticity of one’s own feelings and not on the possession of certain qualities.”
Healing the third chakra is essential for maintaining healthy metabolism, balancing the distribution of energy throughout the body, and determining the course of our lives with appropriate responsibility and freedom. To achieve this, we need to work on the internal first. We need to undo the knots of old habit patterns that drag us downward, the binding fears from the past that rule us, the paralysing self-scrutiny of our shame, or the compulsive acting out of unresolved conflicts.
Give up wanting everything assured ahead of time and accepting that there might be criticism, challenge, misunderstanding, rejection or a possibility of failure.
The challenge of power is to mature, accept responsibility and carve the shape of our future through our own proactivity. Our power increases through meeting challenges and resolving them successfully. We must be willing to take risks, venture into the unknown and escape the gravity of the familiar.