STRUGGLING
RELATIONSHIPS
Robbie is
52 years old and came to see me, he has had a few romantic relationships
although he struggles to make them work and ends up ending them. After he is
supported in examining what went wrong in each relationship I asked what his
relationship with his parents were like? What was their relationship like? Robbie
is confused and doesn’t see how this issue matters.
The reason for this is your
parent(s)/guardian(s), are your first socialisation. Everything built upon your
understanding of relationships stems from these first interactions. Yes
secondary socialisation can overwrite this, in some cases, however they may be
overwritten but they are often still present but may be unconscious and not
easily accessible.
Robbie told me that his parents
didn’t always get on with one another and he remembers although only young his
father leaving for a while and coming back. He remembers being very confused
about what was happening and it took a while for him to accept his father
wasn’t going away again.
Parental relationships are
viewed by a child as the main example (due to primary socialisation), of what a
meaningful relationship was. Also dealing with one of his main parents), abandonment
has in this case caused a disturbance for Robbie.
Further exploration revealed
that he was never talked to about what was going on, until in his teens when he
found out his father had had an affair.
It is possible that Robbie
struggles with relationships because the first experience of a difficult
relationship was that of his parents.
So when I work with Spiritual
Response Therapy, I find out what negative energy there is from past lives and
present life between the client and their father and their mother. There are other factors which I research at a
deeper depth such as “blocks” to positive energies; “interference” and
programs, such as “self-punishment” that may be “running” (we’re like
computers!). The therapy is able to “clear”
all negativity in the client’s soul records (Akashic records) and there is a
shift to the positive!
Do you
think you relationship needs a “spring clean”? Or are you single and find
commitment a challenge? Spiritual
Response Therapy can answer so many questions as to why you haven’t found the
right partner; need to heal or change a bad relationship or you keep repeating
the same mistakes.
Contact
me: heather@heatherprince.co.uk
