Peter Andre is my inspiration for how he conducted himself in his split from his wife Katie Price. His family devotion to his brothers, parents and children, including Katie’s first child, Harvey, is totally admirable and he’s just won the award for “best Dad” for the 2nd year!
He knew that his marriage to Katie needed to be released, although it caused great pain and has taken him 2 years to feel “himself” again with the enormous support of his brother, family and management team.
The spiritual principle of surrender, which is letting go, is not the same as giving up and feeling defeated, which is what many clients feel when they have to continue to let go, long past the point where they are comfortable with the process. And they turn that into a process of stripping away everything from their life until they have nothing left. Then they wonder what they can possibly let go of because they don't have anything left. Now the real work can begin.
One client has been struggling to keep his marriage for the last 10 months and it has been very difficult. Then a few weeks ago we talked about allowing the marriage to end. As soon as he decided to let the marriage go he felt a huge weight lift from his shoulders. Then came a sense of freedom and joy, as opportunities for change that were not possible even a week before, began to appear.
We cannot let go of everything until we understand our attachments from the level of our beliefs, what we think about ourselves and what we think others will think of us. Wherever we resist release there are strong beliefs that are asking to be released. We see this in a material way but the real issue is energetic. How much of ourselves is centered or invested in that? What does letting go mean to our belief system? How do we feel about ourselves after that is done? What new beliefs do we need to create to not feel that we have lost everything and instead, gained our spiritual and emotional freedom, when we let go? These are questions to ponder now after the eclipse on 1st July, as we let go until we can surrender to a new life and manifest the promise of the future.
Who inspires you?
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