Butterfly Love

   

In the workshop “Are you looking for a life partner” I told the group the story of the butterfly, which is the symbol of pure love.  A person with a net in hand chases time and time again after the butterfly and just as the net closes near it, the butterly flutters out of reach.

Just as a person who goes to bars and clubs specifically mindful of meeting their true love, finds it just beyond their reach, as their energy of desperation repels the love they seek.

When a person loves themself and doesn’t “need” anyone to “complete” them as they are truly whole, then the butterfly will come and sit on their shoulder.  By the law of attraction, love will come along at the right time.

As I walked around the fields near my home today, I watched as the butterflys fluttered out of the long grass as my two dogs rushed through.  The brightly coloured butterflys were particularly beautiful and I asked in my mind for love to come and sit on my shoulder.

I continued walking and went through the gate to another section and in a split second a beautiful coloured butterfly flew onto my shoulder!!!  As I registered what had happened, it fluttered away and I was completely blown away as my request had been granted within minutes!

Never doubt that your thoughts are not “heard” by higher energies, whether you believe in God, Angels and/or Guides.  They are listening and helping us every step of the way!

The key is to TREAT EVERYONE WITH LOVE AND PUT JUDGEMENTS AND CRITICISM ON HOLD.  Love All

Love can never be exclusive. The sun does not choose to shine on some flowers in the garden and not others. Love is inclusive and has many faces - caring, listening, sharing from the heart, just accepting someone for what they are right now, are all acts of love, as long as you seek nothing in return. It all starts with acceptance of yourself - you're just fine as you are right now, warts and all. It's not that you will stay that way for ever - but you might, if you don't accept. The secret key to the greatest door called love is acceptance. First your self, then others (especially the ones you currently resist) and eventually ...all. 

To attract, heal, or balance relationships is to realize that the most
important relationship you have is with yourself, every other
relationship follows from there."

Philosopher Soren Kierkegaard “Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards”.  We have to learn from experience, otherwise we keep making the same mistakes and taking them into each new relationship.

I hope that a butterfly lands on your shoulder.

Busy Being Happy

Heather

xxx

22 June 2011

Yesterday was Summer Solstice, the longest day of the year and many people stayed up all night to welcome the rising sun at dawn.  This may sound rather whacky but Midsummer Night was a time to focus on lovers and fortune telling, commemorating the magic of the year's shortest night and nature.  Even Shakespeare used the fairy legends and lovers traditions and wrote about them in A Midsummer Night's Dream. 

As well as the longest day, there are actually 3 eclipses in one month.  We had a partial solar eclipse on June 1^st and we had a full moon eclipse on June 15^th and there’ll be another partial solar eclipse on July 1^st.  Triples are very rare and here we are in the middle of them right now!

These can mean a “turning point” for us or we can be totally unaware of what is happening to us!  These can be opportunities to turn away from or drop the past and old habits. 

But eclipses can also reinforce old habits and the past and lock them in for the future.  Tibetan monks suggest that these eclipse time are times to observe our own mindstream and take notes of what appears to find direction.  Attending Meditation classes or listening to a meditation CD is very beneficial to master “mindfulness”.  (Class dates and CD to order, on my website). 

So, many people will leave negative relationships and negative jobs at this time or old habits of smoking or over-eating for example.  Letting go of the past and old habits will not be easy for most people, but it will open a new door of opportunity that couldn’t be opened until the old door was shut!

If you are unsure of your direction, keep repeating the same mistakes; suffer from negative thoughts or addictive patterns of behaviour or feel confused / fearful, contact me for a Spiritual Response Therapy which can be done via email for anyone, anywhere.  It clears your Soul Record (Akashic Record) of negativity and blocks and can identify your spiritual themes and challenges. 

Wishing you a busy, happy week!

Heather

AM I HAPPY?

Meditation is a great tool to learn “mindfulness”.  Learning just to “be”, we are able to “observe” our thoughts.

Observing my thoughts, if I’m aware of any sadness, I make a conscious effort to flip my thoughts quickly to the positive, otherwise the sad seeds would grow like vines in the rainy season!

By midday I will be confused; by evening a whole jungle of weak, wasteful and negative attitudes will have taken deep roots in my mind. 

The result would equals chaos! 

We all sometimes reach a stage where our attitude may be :

 “So what if I feel the blues today?  It is my life; no one else will be affected.” 

Firstly, the more we allow ourselves  to feel and experience sorrow, the less time we have available to be happy and contented!

It sounds ridiculously obvious, but are we aware of the value of happiness? 

It is an extremely rare commodity, and the cost goes sky high. 

Secondly, do you "feel" it in your life?  If not do you have an issue with a relationship; work; health; prosperity?

These can be cleared with Spiritual Response Therapy.  This healing therapy goes to the very depths of our being.  It clears all programs and prevents further negative energy from accumulating.  It can be done "remotely" for anyone living anywhere.

Each of us are like a pebble in a pond.  When we feel sadness it ripples out….  As members of a family or a co-worker with others, we are part of society and as such our “mood”; our “energy” affects not only ourselves but also others.  How many know of someone who walks into the room and you just "feel" a grey cloud over them?  And others who are a "ray of sunshine".  That's us naturally "feeling" energy. 

Every thought we think is creating our future.  The point of power is always in the present moment.  Affirming that we are “happy”, things begin to happen, because what the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve as the necessary inner and outer steps are taken.

Affirmation -

Loving Others is easy when I love and accept myself.  Everything I touch is a success.

Let go of all doubt and the fear of all appearances to the contrary.  See the desired end result as already accomplished and it will be. 

What if…. It was ‘meant’ to happen the way it did for it to end up so perfectly how it will….’

Thurs 8 June 2011

A bestselling book "Women who love too much" by Robin Norwood says........................

"When being in love means being in pain we’re loving too much.  When most of our chats with close friends are about him, his problems, his thoughts, his feelings – and nearly all our sentences being with “he….” we’re loving too much.

When we excuse his moodiness, bad temper, indifference or put-downs as problems due to his childhood and we try to become his therapist, we’re loving too much.

When we read a self-help book and underline all the passages we think would help him, we’re loving too much."

So, why is it so challenging and difficult to end these unhealthy relationships?  So many women are looking for someone to love them and loving too much becomes an addiction to a partner who is uncaring or unavailable. 

I am one of those women.  Therefore my  decision has been reached that the separation from my man will now be permanent.  As I walk around the local supermarket and look at the biscuits that were his favourite (he’d eat the whole pack with his tea!), the sweets we’d share when watching a good drama or the jar of piccalilli that I had to keep a stock of, I walk on by and a part of me wants to sob.  Yet the other part stands firm that the decision is in my best interest.

I’m sure many people have experienced this dual feeling I speak of. A part of you feels fearful with worry but another part refuses to go there and dwell in it. 

Suddenly all the pieces that fit together no longer do for a time. The ground I walk that was so familiar no longer is and for a short time there is doubt and confusion. I am doing my best to no longer react to this feeling, because experience tells me it is reorganization and will pass in a short time and when it does I will see everything from a clearer point of view, with greater insight and understanding.

In times like this, I understand that it’s best to become an 'observer' of what is happening around me and within me. I know it is not the world changing, but I who am changing. The best “help” I can give this change is not to stop it, but just be the silent observer in wakefulness. I know that in a short time all the pieces of the puzzle will come back together in a new and improved form and I will see everything from a new viewing point!