Women are from Venus

Lots of us women tirelessly analyze our relationship over and over - often creating more negative emotional distance through the fear and anxiety we experience. We mull over and over…

"What does it mean since he did ……….. whatever behaviour it was……."

How many times have we spent hours or days thinking about talking about exactly what it is we need to say or do with a man to fix or change things?

The truth is, the answer often isn't in our head and isn't available from the level of awareness and consciousness we have at the time.  A relationship is a process, just as change, awareness and growth are all processes. 

Many of us make the common mistake of trying to logically convince our men through our words that he should think or feel differently.  That's not how men work emotionally.

The key is to stop doing all the things that get in the way of the connection and attraction that is there but has drifted away.  Open, honest, "real" relationships still have lots of challenges, doubts, "phases" and fears in them.  In fact, in a way, they have more challenges because both people are truly open and honest about who they are and what they're feeling.

Perhaps you panic, creating more emotional uncertainty, and negative disconnected feelings?

Or maybe you’re calm, confident, and assured in a way that lets a man know things aren't going to be difficult and tiresome with you in the future?

Feelings and emotions can change almost instantly.

Instead of trying to convince him or argue with him about how he should think and act in your relationship... it is wiser to make him feel physically and emotionally drawn to you as a woman and as a partner. So tell him how you feel.  By doing this you will allow him to feel so comfortable that he will open up and tell you how he feels too. The reality is that ALL men have their own set of fears about being truly close to a woman - as much as they ALSO want to love and be loved...

To clear "blocks" or "negativity" in your relationship or your future relationship, book a Spiritual Response Therapy clearing with me.

love and happiness

Heather

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